Biblical Parenting Pointers

“All your children shall be taught by the LORD, And great shall be the peace of your children” (Isaiah 54:13, ESV).

Kids should have top priority in our lives. Dr. James Dobson has said, “Children must be valued as our most priceless possession.” Children and grandchildren are the future of the church. Every investment of time, energy, money and emotion will more than payoff, in this world and in eternity. The people of Israel always considered teaching and discipling their children a very high priority. They guarded family time and established family traditions which helped them maintain their identity as God’s people for thousands of years.

God had given them their instructions through Moses: “Place these words on your hearts. Get them deep inside you... Teach them to your children. Talk about them wherever you are, sitting at home or walking in the street; talk about them from the time you get up in the morning until you fall into bed at night” (Deuteronomy 11:18a-19, MSG).

This is still God’s plan! Here are some things to teach your children:

• Teach your children that you think they are special – I’ve always told my kids, “You’re the best daughter in the whole-wide world!” “You’re the best son in the whole-wide world!” Spend some time with your children doing the things that they like to do. Our children’s first glimpse into God’s love is the love we show them.
• Teach your children that you love them – One of the best ways love is communicated is through patient, consistent and purposeful discipline. The Bible tells us that if we do not discipline our children we do not love them (Proverbs 13:24). God shows us His love by consistently disciplining throughout our lives (Hebrews 12:5-11). Biblical discipline is not practiced in anger or rage, it is always administered in love.
• Teach your children right and wrong and to obey – Kids want to know boundaries and what is right and wrong. While your children are young, teach them clearly what is morally right and wrong. Teach them modesty, and to always tell the truth, and to look away from evil. The Ten Commandments are a good guide for morality (with the exception of the 4th Commandment, which is not a moral issue, but the sign of the Old Covenant). These Nine Commandments are all repeated in the New Testament.
• Teach your kids to love God’s Word and God’s church – Reward your children lavishly and frequently for memorizing God’s Word. Encourage them with prizes, money and words of praise for every step they take in internalizing God’s Word. Make Sunday the best day of the week! Don’t burden them with tons of chores; instead, make it a day when you do special things together, get together with good friends, and eat special food.
• Teach your kids by your example – Our faith is caught even easier than it is taught. Nothing is as powerful an advantage and blessing to your children than for you to live your life sold-out to the Lord Jesus Christ!

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Pastor Mark Martin
Calvary Community Church

"Quiet Time" with the Lord

"...In the secret place of His tent He will hide me..." (Psalm 27:5, NASB).

God will talk to you while you're on the run, but you'll hear more when you sit down and listen. Christians for thousands of years have credited having a daily quiet time with God—a daily appointment with God—as the source of their spiritual growth and peace.

By spending time with God each day you are making a declaration of you dependence on God. You're saying, "My rebellious, independent days are over."

Here are some "Quiet Time" helps:

• Make it special. It may be a corner of the living room or a desk in the family room, or just a lazy-boy somewhere, but find a space that becomes a familiar place for meeting with God.
   
• Be creative. Susannah Wesley had 19 children. You know how she had her quiet time? She would sit down in a chair and pull her apron over her head—and woe to the child that disturbed her!
  
  Jewish men take their prayer room with them, they pray under a tallit, or prayer-shawl.
   
• Let music enhance occasionally, but not distract. Christian music can set a tone of worship and praise. I find that instrumental praise music distracts me less than really upbeat contemporary Christian music. Remember, the purpose of this time is to have God speak to your heart through His Word.
   
• Believe that God is going to meet with you. "Every morning you'll hear me at it again. Every morning I lay out the pieces of my life on your altar and watch for fire to descend" (Psalm 5:3, MSG).

The Scriptures say, "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you" (James 4:8, NASB). "The Lord is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him" (Hebrews 11:6, NASB).



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Pastor Mark Martin
Calvary Community Church

The UN and Human Rights - A Kangaroo Court - Maoz Israel

There's a great Messianic ministry called Maoz Israel that publishes a monthly newsletter I wanted to share with everyone. The May issue has a pretty good article that explains Israel's current situation and relationship with other countries in the world. We are seeing last-days Bible prophecy being fulfilled as all eyes are on Israel and they are pretty much alone in the world with not much support.

The UN and Human Rights - A Kangaroo Court

Maoz Israel's Website

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Pastor Mark Martin
Calvary Community Church

Treasures Hidden in the Darkness

In case you missed yesterday's GraceMail that deals with suffering and dark times, I'm going to re-publish it here on the blog.

"And I will give you treasures hidden in the darkness—secret riches. I will do this so you may know that I am the Lord, the God of Israel, the one who calls you by name" (Isaiah 45:3).

God gave this promise to Cyrus, a pagan king, affirming that He had ordained him to be His instrument to accomplish His will. The promise came true when He conquered the city of Babylon and all its riches.

A spiritual truth is mirrored by the historical event. There are treasures to be found in our darkest times. There are "treasures hidden in the darkness—secret riches."

In the dark times God gives us treasure.

He gives us the treasure of trust as we learn to submit to Him, even when we don’t know where the Lord is leading.

"You light a lamp for me. The Lord, my God, lights up my darkness" (Psalm 18:28).

We find the treasure of peace when we rest knowing that He is in control and working out His plan for our lives.

"And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:7, NASB).

We find the treasure of a much deeper fellowship with the Lord. David, in his dark time shares: "For he will conceal me there when troubles come; he will hide me in his sanctuary. He will place me out of reach on a high rock" (Psalm 27:5).

Hidden in the darkness is the treasure of God’s special comfort: "For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ" (2 Corinthians 1:5).

In the dark times, there is the treasure of experiencing God’s strength: "But the salvation of the righteous is from the Lord; He is their strength in time of trouble" (Psalm 37:39, NASB).

"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1, NASB).

God says that His purpose in giving you the treasures hidden in the darkness—secret treasures is so that "...you may know that I am the Lord, the God of Israel, the one who calls you by name."




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Pastor Mark Martin
Calvary Community Church

Voice of D.L. Moody from 1897

D.L. Moody is one of the heroes of the faith. He was a late 19th century American evangelist whose worldwide ministry saw a million people come to faith in Christ. He founded Moody Church, Moody Bible Institute, and Moody Publishers, among other Christian ministries that are still around today.

We found this rare recording of D.L Moody reading the Beatitudes from Matthew's gospel from 1897. The quality is poor because recording was in its infancy during that time. The audio recording also contains the singing of Ira Sankey, Moody's long-time music minister. Enjoy!

D.L Moody Audio Recording from 1897

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Pastor Mark Martin

Calvary Community Church

It's Your Choice - A message on predestination

If you didn't hear my teaching from this past weekend on predestination, election, God's foreknowledge, and Calvinism in general, be sure to check it out.

It's Your Choice

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Pastor Mark Martin
Calvary Community Church

Christian Persecution Rising

This is not good news.  Please read this report from today on the rise of Christian persecution, particularly in the Arab world.  We need to be praying for our brothers and sisters throughout the globe.

Christians persecuted at alarming rate in Iran, Arab world, US report says

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Pastor Mark Martin

Calvary Community Church